
He noticed my knitting basket the first time he came to my house. He knew his grandmother loved him, he told me, because when he was little, she knit him sweaters (we've revisited that conversation several times since, and it eventually came out that the sweaters were too itchy to wear.) And I realised I loved him when, among other indicators, I found myself wanting to knit him a sweater, too.
I had two patterns in mind and consulted in secret with our mutual male friends and with his mother (who is also a knitter). I found the wool at
Romni Wools during the end-of-September bff reunion weekend in Toronto. The Romni ladies helped me figure out how much wool to buy (the pattern recommended 10 balls of out-of-production wool) and helped me find a non-itchy fiber. Suze helped me pick out an appropriate colour of wool.
Every Friday afternoon; evenings spent watching Gossip Girl or Mad Men; a post-exam weekend on the couch; and finally the sweater was knit. I blocked it with a dry iron and a wet sheet late the night before my roommate Aurelie and I made the holiday drive back to Ontario, pressing each piece between pulling clothes and other sundries out of my drawers and cupboards. I started seaming it while listening to CBC overnight and finished it by the time we hit New Brunswick. I was in the passenger seat and held it up to show Aurelie. As I did so, this strange feeling come over me - an indescribable feeling - because this was the first sweater I'd ever knit and I very surprisingly enjoyed all of it. Tearing it apart because I thought it was going to be too small; hours of stockinette; too scared to check my gauge (which I did do, and which was bang on); worrying it was going to be too big; seaming.
He thanked me. He wore it. He thanked me later that day and again since. He wore it again.
So a sweater was the right gift,
superstition or no. Also, he looks incredibly handsome in a handknit.